I have known many people in my life who love to say “I love you” but their behavior doesn’t back it up. It seems that when we hear those three words, we want to feel them and believe its true. But in the soon to be 5D world, where thoughts, backed up only by genuine emotion, is what creates the manifestation of the thought “I love you.” The manifestation is what is created from the thought “I love you.” IF they do love you then what comes after the words or even before the words are behaviors that illustrate loving behavior. In fact, the words won’t be necessary, but still appreciated of course, because the action of love will send the energy/feeling of love straight to the heart of the person toward whom the loving act was directed.
In the 3D world, we were first introduced to this when moms tell their girls, ‘Just because the boy says he loves you doesn’t mean he does, his motives for those words may be coming from some other part of him—i.e. his hormones’. If the girl has sex with the boy and then the boy doesn’t continue to behave in a loving manner, then the girl gets that lesson loud and clear.
As adults, we “fall in” love. This is also hormonal, and neurotransmitter-driven for survival of the species. That is ALL this kind of “falling in love” feeling is for. From then on, all that matters is how someone behaves; not sweetly delivered words or gifts. The only thing that matters with men is their behavior. Really for anyone but with men, all that counts is what they are doing. How do they behave? Do they disregard your rights or feelings on one hand but on the other talk sweetly to you with words of love? This is confusing because all any of us want is to be loved and cared for but often there is manipulation due to a lack of ability to back up words with actions.
I have known people who overuse those three words and that is also a sign that something is amiss. A manipulation is in play. If you say something often enough, they will believe it. The master manipulator will use this tactic to convince you that you are loved so when they make their unloving play of power, you will be dupped. It takes a while to come out of this masterful manipulation; to see the conflict of thinking (not feeling) they love you and being disrespected by their unloving behavior of disrespect. If you do “feel” they love you, remember that you cultivated that feeling and you came to believe they love you—no one makes you feel any way you do, because you heard the words so many times, you were convinced.
In the 5D world, your emotions and thoughts will create even before your actions, but they will motivate your actions too. For example, unconditional love does not mean loving someone when they mistreat you. Instead, it means loving them equal to how they behave. If they mistreat you, then you “tough” love them which means call them out on it. You don’t let them walk all over you “because you love them unconditionally”. This is a huge misperception. Making excuses for the person’s bad behavior toward you is another misperception of what it means to “unconditionally” love someone. Just because you know they have had a bad experience in their past doesn’t give them permission to carry it forward into abusive/mistreatment of you which you accept when they, if they, apologize. Unconditionally loving them (but first loving yourself) is to get them into treatment or counseling or leaving the situation, until they do something different. Them apologizing for their bad behavior each time they engage in it, is NOT doing something different.
LOVE is what needs to be behind every thought if it will make the creation that comes from that thought exactly what you wanted it to be. Pay close attention to the result of your thoughts. If your thoughts were not 100% love, the resulting manifestation will be less than expected.
Most of what I have said above was designed to illustrate a point. But the truth is on an emotional, mental, and energetic level, men and women are the same. The apparent “stark” differences in our anatomy are more of an illusion that you might think. Most of what has divided men and women over the centuries is what the “powers that be” were dictating to divide and conquer us. “Big boys don’t cry”. All that conditioned response did was make them suppress their emotional responses and make men subject to heart attacks and grumpy behavior, even abusive toward women. It’s a lie. We have the same emotional needs and desires but the order of how it works is a little different early in life due to the necessary hormonal requirements. The only true difference between men and women is the level of testosterone. Testosterone makes muscles bigger and stronger so that between the pair, someone can build the shelter. Females have the equipment to gestate a human being. These are the only two differences.
The differences can seem bigger early in life but when we are factually taught how it all works, early in life, we can manage the necessary hormonal differences accordingly without the drama that comes from teaching things like “Girls are the weaker sex” or “Big boys don’t cry”.
There has been quite a manipulation over the centuries diminishing female minds and over inflating male minds and this is what is rebalancing right now as the earth moves in its ascension into a frequency of the 5th Dimension where living from the heart rules, whether you are a man or a woman. We are energy first, AKA Consciousness, and biologically built one way or another for a specific purpose SECOND.
Thought (Intention) Matters
This becomes easier to see when we look at men and women over 40 when hormonal / primal / procreation ends as a force within that can skew our ability to be equal and treat ourselves and others with loving respect. This force has also been intentionally manipulated and over inflated which is why there has been much manipulation between men and women over the very subject of whether we can make a choice to control when procreation occurs. Women have always had the power to decide if implantation of a fertilized egg occurs but have been conditioned for centuries to not believe they do.
In fact, both men and women, if they communicate with each other factually and realistically can decide this together. This is intention/thought in action. We are not beholden to our bodies. It is our consciousness—intent/thought– that runs the body. Then no “mistakes” or “oops” of conception will occur. This is a clear example of how thought and intention matters.
Sometimes we are unaware of our thought and intentions and this is how manifestation, in this example, a conception that will create drama, occurs.
Drama will not be needed or wanted living from a higher, more evolved consciousness frequency of the 5th dimension. Peaceful existent will be the undercurrent. No more conflict. Drama between the sexes, drama in society and certainly war will no longer be supported by a spiritually evolved society which is, what is happening now on earth. Its why we are all experiencing unique levels of stress physically and emotionally, as we clear out, process, and take on a higher perception using universal truths to guide us from now on.
Next time you aren’t getting what you thought you were getting, examine your deeper intentions. This is your inner world in action. If meditation and other superpower skills aren’t naturally coming forth to help you with this, then call upon me. I can help.
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Author: Bethann Vetter
Bethann Vetter is a Holistic Therapist, Medium and Teacher. She uses frequency balancing tools via her Mediumship in Trance skills to locate and provide the frequencies your unique set of imbalances requires. She uses her own subtle energy body technique, Epigenetic Reprogramming to help you clear subconscious level blocks. Frequency Specific Microcurrent is used for specific cellular level healing. Classes are available in active meditation skills such as mediumship and trance healing skills. Trance Healing sessions called QHHT© are also offered. Her frequency balancing ability works similar to the way Edgar Cayce worked. She tunes in to your issues and provides you with the necessary information, substances you might need as well as adjusting your frequency to a higher harmonic level. Her work is done by appointment only at a distance or in her office in Jacksonville Beach, FL.