Are you having trouble sticking with it? We feel embarrassed that we failed our purpose but it’s not your fault. The shadow side of us has the answers. My work with your energy field can help you get on and stay on track with your new year resolution what ever the goal.
It’s the vibe of YOU and the truth of your feelings in the shadow side (by shadow I mean side you don’t know well as you think you do) of you, that creates your choices, what you attract and your world. When we start out on a decision to make a change, we muscle up and say to ourselves—We can do it!! But that is just the conscious level of us. It is a good thing to have positive thoughts but it’s not the whole story or every resolution we make we would accomplish and maintain.
Thinking good thoughts and pushing away the doubt works for a while and then we can’t resist any longer and our behavior returns to the very thing we don’t want to do.
We try to hide it from others—we don’t want to be embarrassed that we failed our purpose. We try to hide it from ourselves—doing “it” behind closed doors or in dark of night. We rationalize it. We tell ourselves we will get back on it after this one slip up. And some of us wake up one morning and realize we forgot all about that resolution.
Making change is about changing “set-in” patterns that our brains and bodies have become used to. Neural pathways in the body’s computer known as the brain change with difficulty. This is due to the pattern keeper of the brain called the Gnostic region. Using a system like One Brain® or ESRT© provides the brain with a rebalance that makes it easier for you to stay the course.
Mantras and positive thinking work to keep our vibration elevated but unless you are working on that non-conscious, shadow side of yourself to give it a voice via the systems I use, ultimately the pattern will stay in place. Perhaps your resolution is to finally get that 20 pounds off and so you do but then it comes back on. Some of this may be from the choices you are making out of the unresolved emotions that are stored in the body’s epigenetics or in the body’s energy field. These unresolved areas cause our impulses to control us rather than our choices.
The energy behind your choice or words
The shadow side of us is that side which we cannot connect with easily with our conscious minds. When you have a “light bulb” moment, you know that something has “popped” out of your subconscious. These epiphanies feel great and we all want more of them. They are truly the key to getting on and staying on our unique path and meeting our desired goals. When the energy of the shadow side of us matches us consciously, then we reach our goals with very little effort!
We can intentionally learn more from our subconscious or shadow side but we have to first recognize that when we get stuck or something isn’t flowing or a relationship isn’t easily moving forward, that it is this part of us that is running the show—NOT our conscious choices and thoughts. Just because you have a good thought and want something to happen doesn’t mean that the non-conscious parts of you are on board with your idea. The idea might feel good to you but that isn’t the end of the story. If it’s not happening the way you need it to, then it’s your shadow side that needs some help.
Our conscious minds and the choices that come from them are driven by many things. They are driven by the confluence of belief systems set up long ago and the influences of the media and society. Therefore, it is questionable whether the choices coming just from your conscious thought are the choices for the whole of you including your non-conscious and shadow side aspects.
Sometimes we have a shocking experience and it makes us stop and wonder what has happened and how did we get “here”. This is because we have not been in good communication with the energy behind what we are planning or doing and the choices we are making day to day that flow into year to year.
We are guided more by the shadow side of ourselves than our conscious mind. Think of all the choices you make every day that come from impulses rather than choices. Most of us are programmed to behave certain way and we can’t see our forest through our trees. We can’t see that our impulses, though seemingly insignificant in the grand scheme of things, may be taking us down a rabbit hole to a shocking experience that is designed to wake us up so that we re-route our course.
If you want real change, and continuity of flow in your life, planning time to communicate with and get to know the non-conscious or shadow side of yourself is a must. Getting in a routine with dealing with this side of yourself will not only get things unstuck but will keep them flowing so that you don’t end up with another stuck situation.
Getting started with this is easy. Making an appointment with me for once a month to get to know the “better half” of you is how you will come into the real power that will unfold the beauty of creating the, health, life and body you have always wanted.
Author: Bethann Vetter
Bethann Vetter is a Holistic Therapist, Medium and Teacher. She uses frequency balancing tools via her Mediumship in Trance skills to locate and provide the frequencies your unique set of imbalances requires. She uses her own subtle energy body technique, Epigenetic Reprogramming to help you clear subconscious level blocks. Frequency Specific Microcurrent is used for specific cellular level healing. Classes are available in active meditation skills such as mediumship and trance healing skills. Trance Healing sessions called QHHT© are also offered. Her frequency balancing ability works similar to the way Edgar Cayce worked. She tunes in to your issues and provides you with the necessary information, substances you might need as well as adjusting your frequency to a higher harmonic level. Her work is done by appointment only at a distance or in her office in Jacksonville Beach, FL.